Compatibility between two people is tricky; how does one find someone that fits just right? Our expectations have changed in recent years and as the current 20 somethings move into their 30's finding a life partner seems to be getting harder and harder. We are evolving as human beings, with more complexity of desires, feelings and emotions. Finding a match that can fill our souls and hearts needs is more complex than in ages past when standards and roles were different.
According to the Office for National Statistics many individuals are deciding not to marry at all and that more than half of women under 50 have never been married — double the figure recorded 30 years ago.
The purpose of chart compatibility is to help you have a better understanding of yourself and the person you are in a relationship with and with this understanding you will create more depth, love, and compassion in your relationship. It will also help you to know where the difficulties will erupt in your relationship. The common belief is money difficulties is the primary reason for divorce, with infidelity in the number 2 spot. Yet astrology will reveal that there are many more sub reasons that can lead to overspending, or infidelity. Having this knowledge can save a relationship and help repair the broken pieces of trust. Sometimes charts have more incompatibility than compatibility, but the tie of what is compatible is very strong. In these cases it is imperative to understand the fundamental differences so as not to end up in a love hate situation.
Perhaps you have just met someone or are considering getting married. WIth the divorce rate over 50% in the USA using chart compatibility will help you know, upfront, what areas in the relationship you might have to give extra love and attention to.
According to a recent poll divorce rate amongst the over 50s in the United States is on the increase, with a rising number of so called 'baby boomers' deciding to end their marriages.
The baby boomer generation is the group of people that astrologers call the Pluto in Leo generation. Leo is about following your heart. It is no wonder that the over 50’s who are among the Pluto in Leo generation are taking inventory of whether or not they want to live the rest of their life in a relationship void of love and romance.
During certain astrology transits relationships will undergo scrutiny to determine whether or not to stay together, break apart or get divorced. A Saturn return is one of those times. The average age for couples going through their first divorce is 30 years old. Saturn returns are cyclical in nature and impact one from the ages of 28- 30 or 56 – 60. Pluto transits and Uranus transits are another and are not age related but personal to your individual astrology chart.
According to the U.S. Census Bureau, the divorce rate of first marriage is around 50 percent; second marriages are at 60 to 67 percent and third marriages are at 73 to 74 percent. With these horrendous statistics it is advisable to seek enough information and help to overcome what appears to be a marriage of chance for lasting happiness.
A compatibility chart will show you what will be easy in the relationship and what will be difficult.
The video below will show you the techniques that I use, as a professional astrologer I am able to use the different charts to get clarity around the needs and 'karma' between people. Using the transits will also tell you the timing for when problems may arise, or timing for smooth sailing, romance and happiness. Unless you are an experienced astrologer, the video is quite technical and complex, it is shown for students who want to learn astrology and for you to get a glimpse of what astrologers need to do to give you an accurate astrology reading in your consultation.
If you are in a relationship then you owe it to yourself to understand your loves chart and how it interacts with yours. It can make the difference between being a happy couple or having problems. Chart compatibility in astrology can help you know how well you will get along and what possible problems could arise in your relationship. With a little how to knowledge you can understand whether or not the person you are involved with has the potential of sustaining a long term happy relationship. When comparing your chart with another you will want to pay close attention to Mars, Venus, Mercury and the Moon. You can glean hidden information that a professional astrologer knows from looking at how these planets connect with one another.
This information may be contrary to sun sign astrology compatibility profiles where the suggested harmony is from one sun sign to another sun sign. The Sun quality is important without a doubt, yet the moon rules the night and emotions. It is primarily important that your lover understands you emotionally, how you respond, what hurts your feelings and what you need to feel loved. Mercury is vital to communication, Mars and Venus to sexual chemistry and Venus to mutual likes and interest, all points of tremendous importance when wondering about the long term value of a love affair.
Mars and Venus define the sexual chemistry in your charts. When your Mars is connected to Venus (or visa versa) in your lovers chart then sparks fly. Without a good Mars Venus connection the sex life can be ho hum. Do not despair if you do not see any prominent connection between Mars and Venus; another chemistry producing connection is Mars to Moon, that quality will also create sexual attraction.
When your Venuses are in compatible signs it is a good omen. Venus is what we love and value. If your Venuses are connected then you can share and enjoy similar activities. If your Venus is not connected with your lovers chart then one person may always feel that they are compromising in the relationship to make the other person happy or that they never get to do what is important to them. Many marriages are content with each partner having separate hobbies and not spending free time together, if this is appealing to you then a non connected Venus is fine.
Moon signs in similar qualities are extremely important for long term happiness. If your Moon is in an air or fire sign it is best that your lovers' Moon is also in air or fire.
If your Moon is in a water or earth sign and your partners Moon is in water or earth this combination creates stability in the relationship. If your Moons are in incompatible signs then extra attention will be needed to understand the emotional makeup and needs of each other.
Mercury connections are vital to communication and understanding your differences. Mercury in a positive connecting position in your astrology charts will help determine how quickly and easily you will be able to overcome misunderstandings.
Astrology is a complex subject yet this basic understanding will help you know whether or not the relationship you are in will be long lasting or short lived. This information can also help you know if the relationship will be able to handle future stress and conflict. A professional astrologer analyzes astrology compatibility to help determine harmonious connections and potential areas of discomfort in relationships. Astrology does not dictate what will happen but gives us a source of hidden knowledge to help us understand ourselves and others.