Donna Page (C) 2009
Astrology compatibility in chart comparison can help you know how well you will get along and what possible problems could arise in your relationship. With a little how to knowledge you can understand whether or not the person you are involved with has the potential of sustaining a long term happy relationship. When comparing your chart with another you will want to pay close attention to Mars, Venus, Mercury and the Moon. You can glean hidden information that a professional astrologer knows from looking at how these planets connect with one another.
This information may be contrary to sun sign astrology compatibility profiles where the suggested harmony is from one sun sign to another sun sign. The Sun quality is important without a doubt, yet the moon rules the night and emotions. It is primarily important that your lover understands you emotionally, how you respond, what hurts your feelings and what you need to feel loved. Mercury is vital to communication, Mars and Venus to sexual chemistry and Venus to mutual likes and interest, all points of tremendous importance when wondering about the long term value of a love affair.
Mars and Venus define the sexual chemistry in your charts. When your Mars is connected to Venus (or visa versa) in your lovers chart then sparks fly. Without a good Mars Venus connection the sex life can be ho hum. Do not despair if you do not see any prominent connection between Mars and Venus; another chemistry producing connection is Mars to Moon, that quality will also create sexual attraction.
When your Venuses are in compatible signs it is a good omen. Venus is what we love and value. If your Venuses are connected then you can share and enjoy similar activities. If your Venus is not connected with your lovers chart then one person may always feel that they are compromising in the relationship to make the other person happy or that they never get to do what is important to them. Many marriages are content with each partner having separate hobbies and not spending free time together, if this is appealing to you then a non connected Venus is fine.
Moon signs in similar qualities are extremely important for long term happiness. If your Moon is in an air or fire sign it is best that your lovers' Moon is also in air or fire.
If your Moon is in a water or earth sign and your partners Moon is in water or earth this combination creates stability in the relationship. If your Moons are in incompatible signs then extra attention will be needed to understand the emotional makeup and needs of each other.
Mercury connections are vital to communication and understanding your differences. Mercury in a positive connecting position in your astrology charts will help determine how quickly and easily you will be able to overcome misunderstandings.
Astrology is a complex subject yet this basic understanding will help you know whether or not the relationship you are in will be long lasting or short lived. This information can also help you know if the relationship will be able to handle future stress and conflict. A professional astrologer analyzes astrology compatibility to help determine harmonious connections and potential areas of discomfort in relationships. Astrology does not dictate what will happen but gives us a source of hidden knowledge to help us understand ourselves and others.
Astrology and Relationship