All relationships, even loving and caring marriages, go through times of challenge. It is part of life, yet whether or not the challenging
times will end in splitting up or staying together can be known through analyzing the astrology charts. If it is inherent in the natal
chart that the personís life path will have multiple relationships then the challenging times in the relationship can be enough stress
to split the couple apart. If in an individualís astrological chart the life path does not indicate problems in relationships then
the stress times in life will be around other factors that is indicated, sometimes a personís fate is not to have problems in relationships
but stress around children, money or career issues and relationships stay strong during the planetary periods of stress.
discovery when people learn astrology, is some of the same astrology indicators for getting married are the same as getting divorced.
On the surface this does not make sense until you understand that the planetary influences are about making decisions around relationships,
and not to marry or divorce, but to think about what a person wants and needs to be happy. If a person is in a relationship and the
difficult energies are prompting to ask oneself what do I need to be happy, and the answer is change my life, and a person is with
someone, many times the change is to separate. On the other hand if a person is single and the planetary influence is nudging one
to make decisions to do life differently to bring more joy into their life, then choosing to make a commitment can be their answer.
or not to divorce is a serious decision with life altering consequences. In the USA , one in two marriages will end in divorce. If
you are facing a decision of divorce study your astrology chart to find answers that will help you know where to put your effort and
energy for the best possible outcome for your happiness and future. When you want to know if your relationship is compatible using
you must do a chart compatibility comparison.
A compatibility chart will show you what will be easy in the relationship
and what will be difficult. If you are seeking answers to whether or not your relationship will survive a tough time, look first to
your chart to see what you are meant to learn from the difficult experience. Learning from the problem may not be able to save the
relationship but you can resolve that issue that lies within yourself so you do not bring it to another relationship.
the U.S. Census Bureau, the divorce rate of first marriage is around 50 percent; second marriages are at 60 to 67 percent and third
marriages are at 73 to 74 percent. These facts are indicative of individuals who have not been able to pinpoint why they attract relationships
that do not work out and somehow end up with another marraige to extricate themselves from. With these horrendous statistics it is
advisable to seek enough information and help to overcome what appears to be a marriage of chance for lasting happiness.
are hard when you have formed a close intimate bond with another person. Divorce can be devastating if you believed that you found
the person who you would spend your life with, then came to a conclusion that it wasn't going to happen. Even when you choose to be
the person who calls it quits it still can be tough. If your partner is the one who wants a divorce and you don't, then it can be
May people look to astrology to help find answers to what is going on. Will my relationship get through these tough times?
Will I really get divorced? Will I find love again? Is this a temporary problem? Does my astrology chart show divorce? What can I
do to make this transition easier? Will we be able to get back together and work things out? Can we work through these issues or is
there a major hurdle between us that will always be a problem? Astrology will not tell you what to do, but it can help you understand
why you are facing what you are and will help you know when certain problems will be resolved.
Many times an astrologer
will be asked
the question whether or not a relationship will break up or get back together when the love life is having problems. There are several
factors to look at in the astrology chart to analyze whether a marriage or romantic relationship is under enough planetary stress
to warrant divorce or permanent breakup.
First look at the fate of the astrology chart and see if the individual has the qualities
of long term relationship. These factors are seen with fixed signs, Aquarius, Taurus, Leo and Scorpio with the personal planets, especially
the Sun, Moon, Venus, and the ascendant. The next is to determine if the ruler of the 7th house of marriage and partnership is a planet
in a fixed sign, and whether or not it is afflicted. If the planet is afflicted it indicates more complications with love life and
long term partnership. Your role as an astrologer is to also determine the health of Venus, the planet of love, and whether or not
it is afflicted.
An affliction can be determined when there are difficult aspects to the planet you are looking at, in this case the
planet that rules the seventh house and Venus. If your Venus
is connected with Uranus, Saturn, Neptune or Pluto that lends a quality
to the relationship that could cause certain problems in relationships when Venus undergoes stress.
The next step the astrologer will
take is to determine what the astrology weather forecast is. That is to say what are the upcoming transits to your Venus and the ruler
of your house of partnership. If there are difficult transits to your Venus your astrologer will be able to tell you how long they
will go on, what appears to be out of balance, and what the astrology is indicating that you need to address in order to bring peace
and harmony back into your love life.
In most circumstances the astrological time tables for difficult transits are usually eighteen
months, with three times prominent for a month at a time of transition times to change patterns so you will be happier. Sometimes
this is a permanent break up and sometimes it is a difficult phase in the relationship as you work through issues.
Astrology can help
you know when these time frames are, whether or not the compatibility between you and your lover is strong enough to whether the astrological
factors, and what you can do to respect the change needed from within. When you learn astrology and become your own astrologer you
have the tools and wisdom needed to understand difficult phases in life and how best to work with the energy of the planets to have
the life you want.